
A July 21st article in the Wall Street Journal titled “Kids Quit the Team for More Family Time” was a provocative counterpoint to my blog “5 Great Lesson of Team Sports.” The WSJ article conceded “Youth sports have big benefits for kids. Research links participation to better grades and self esteem, long-term improvements in education and employment and lower obesity rates.” The counterpoint was that more parents are choosing to say no to upper echelon sports because of the rising time and financial commitment becoming increasingly associated with competitive sports.
I would agree that the upper levels of competitive youth sports can be extremely expensive. With two boys in competitive youth hockey I would say I am a card carrying expert on just how expensive youth sports has become. The WSJ article made some great points related to the importance of family and spending time together. Youth sports do tend to eat into the Holidays with alarming regularity but that doesn’t mean you still can’t spend time together as family during a sports integrated Holiday. We have had some wonderful family adventures traveling for youth sports and combining it with a vacation.
My fundamental disagreement with the WSJ article isn’t in the premise that youth sports can get crazy, expensive, and time consuming. My disagreement is in the assumption that parents are buying into the youth sports frenzy because they believe they are funding “junior’s” future as a college or professional athlete. The article cites the stark statistics that only 3% to 6% of high school athletes make it as college athletes and only about 1% to 9% of college athletes make it to the pros. I completely agree that those odds are pretty sobering but that is NOT the reason kids should be playing competitive sports to begin with. I know a fair number of completely unrealistic parents that believe they are funding their child’s path to the pros but the overwhelming majority of us are doing it for two reasons that have nothing to do with our children playing at the pro or college level. Those reasons are 1) our kids are passionate about the sport and want to play at the highest level they can compete at and 2) because we want to allow our children to grow through the experience.
As I stated in the blog “5 Great Lessons of Team Sports” kids are growing through competitive sports in ways that will give them advantages in LIFE, not pro sports. Every family has to choose what is right for them but youth sports just might be the best education you will ever pay for.
As my regular readers have no doubt observed, I’ve been away on vacation for a couple of weeks but I am back now and ready to tackle some great subjects in the weeks to come. I must admit I still have one more family vacation coming up in August, it involves taking my family to Chicago for a rather expensive youth sports outing!

Chuck Terry is the Executive Vice President and CSO of Carew International and is regular contributor to Carew’s blog – Executive Insights
Carew International is a leader in sales training and leadership development; specializing in comprehensive, proven training programs for sales, sales management and customer service excellence. For over 30 years, Carew has earned its reputation of delivering increased productivity and profitability to our valued clients world wide.
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Previous blogs such as “Low Morale in the Workplace- Causes and Cures” , “Building Company Morale- Part One: Eagles and Ducks”, and “Preventing Lower Morale Through Higher Leadership” continue to get dozens of hits a day from people searching for answers about the runaway problem that is poor morale at work. While I have no intention of rehashing the points from previous blogs on this subject, recently several readers have inquired about how the problem of poor morale might be unique for small businesses.
The SBA identifies a small business as one that employs 500 or fewer employees. That seems a little broad in scope since “small business” by that definition represents 99.7 percent of all employers in the U.S. For the purpose of the readers that were inquiring on this subject, I will narrow the definition for this article to include firms with 20 or fewer employees. The most recent U.S. Census data (remember, this year’s census is not completed yet) reflects that firms with less than 20 employees account for slightly more than 18% of employment in the United States. With almost a fifth of working folks in the U.S. represented by that definition it certainly seems like time well spent to explore how low morale impacts that cross section of business size.
One of the biggest and most obvious differences in working in what is sometimes categorized as a “micro business” is the personal nature of the business itself. Businesses of this size are typically still run by the founder, who more than likely has a high level of involvement, and probably started the business because he/she wanted “to be their own boss.” Quite often that vision didn’t include being OTHER people’s bosses and the management skills of the founder might be on the weak side as a result. The number one reason for poor morale as reported in the blog “Low Morale in the Workplace- Causes and Cures” was poor leadership, coming in at almost 73% as identified by the consulting firm of Challenger, Gray, and Christmas. In a small business this can be even more magnified because there is often no way around the situation of poor leadership when the leader is usually the founder/ owner. All the tactics referenced in the blog above are still relevant but often times it is up to the employees themselves to find a way to turn around their morale. The good news is that often the owner of a small business is more open to an “intervention” than a mid to upper level manager in a larger company. Try sitting down with the owner and confronting him/her as a group on the aspects of their leadership styles that are negatively impacting company morale. A critical key to employing this tactic is to focus on the behavior and not the person. If the intervention comes off as a personal attack it is probably time to move to Plan B, update your resume.
In the research I have done on the company morale subject I didn’t find any data to suggest that the reasons for low morale are any different in a small company than in a larger business, they are just experienced differently. After poor leadership, heavy workload and work related stress still check in at number two and three respectively as the drivers of poor morale in small businesses.
In a company of 20 or less employees it is common for workloads to not only get very heavy but to spike up and down. It is also not uncommon for certain employees to be impacted more than others just by the nature of how many “hats” each person may be wearing. Developing the ability to ask for help can often solve these types of morale issues. When everyone is busy they often fail to notice that one of their co-workers is dangerously busy. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Work related stress can also be unique in how it is experienced in a “micro business”. Job security is a driver of stress these days in companies of any size, but can be particularly challenging in firms of 20 or less employees. In larger companies you are often shielded from the daily trials and tribulations of the business that might potentially impact job security but not so in a “micro business”. In a small business it can often feel like a stress ride at the theme park from Hell because everyone is more aware of what is happening in the business. For this reason it is critical that the owner communicate constantly about what is happening to allay stress as much as possible. If the owner doesn’t clearly interpret what is happening in the business he/she will leave it to the employees to assign their own definitions which are invariably worse than the reality of any given situation.
Morale is critical to the survival of any business but even more so for a company with 20 or fewer employees. Considering that about half of all the jobs created over the next few years will be created by small businesses the importance of creating a workplace with high morale has never been more important.

Chuck Terry is the Executive Vice President and CSO of Carew International and is regular contributor to Carew’s blog – Executive Insights
Carew International is a leader in sales training and leadership development; specializing in comprehensive, proven training programs for sales, sales management and customer service excellence. For over 30 years, Carew has earned its reputation of delivering increased productivity and profitability to our valued clients world wide.
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According to a survey by the Families and Works Institute the average American spends more time a year in the bathroom than on vacation!
Research by Loyola University reveals that American managers are working an extra MONTH per year longer than in 1970. Americans work 137 hours per year longer than their Japanese counterparts yet Japan documents 10,000 cases per year of death by over-work or “Karoosh.” Considering Americans are outworking Japanese employees what do you suppose the “Karoosh” totals would be if the United States tracked such things? Is it any wonder we don’t?
Below are the statistics for how much time American workers spend on vacation versus their International counterparts:
Average Annual Vacation Days
- Italy 42
- France 37
- Germany 35
- Brazil 34
- Britain 28
- Canada 26
- Japan 25
- USA 13
In my blog “Back to Basics” I described my own epiphany about experiencing the need to get away from the blinding pace of business and relax. Is it surprising given the statistics cited above? According to a USA Today article 40% of American workers describe their work place as “most like a real life Survivor program.” All the signs are pointing in one direction; the entire corporate right-sizing, down-sizing, etc. that has occurred over the last 30 years has pushed us to the breaking point. The American worker is rapidly approaching the edge and, just like the proverbial frog in hot water, the heat was turned up so slowly we didn’t even notice we were boiling!
The same survey by the Families and Work Institute cited in the first paragraph indicates that 63% of all American employees want to work less, up from 46% in 1992. I say the time for the New American Vacation Revolution is now! We need to rebalance our personal lives with the work place and spend more time with our families recreating together. Author Stephen Covey popularized the story of “Sharpening the Saw” as one of his Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. The basic concept is, if you stop working so hard with a dull saw long enough to sharpen it; you will be more effective in less time. I agree that the same dynamic is true for our ability to succeed in our jobs.
Over the coming months I will continue to seek out ways to fuel the “Revolution” and report my findings in this blog. It is time to work less, play more, and be more successful as a result!

Chuck Terry is the Executive Vice President and CSO of Carew International and is regular contributor to Carew’s blog – Executive Insights
Carew International is a leader in sales training and leadership development; specializing in comprehensive, proven training programs for sales, sales management and customer service excellence. For over 30 years, Carew has earned its reputation of delivering increased productivity and profitability to our valued clients world wide.
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